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The Ashera-community is a free online community devoted to non-monogamous relationships and the various types of relationship-roleplay that exist, such as: Candaulism, Hotwifing & Cuckolding.

We celebrate the beauty and diversity of love in all its forms: Whether you identify as straight, LGBTQ+ or anywhere along the spectrum of sexual orientation and gender identity, this space is designed for you.

Candaulism

Refers to a practice or fetish in which one partner derives pleasure from exposing their significant other to the gaze of others, and from the idea of their partner being desired or engaged with by others.

Role-play can be an integral part of candaulism, as it allows partners to explore fantasies and dynamics that enhance the experience.

Clothing, and the context in which clothing is worn, also plays a significant role in candaulism: In public settings, clothing that draws attention can amplify the thrill of candaulism, as the observing partner may feel a mix of pride and possessiveness.

Hotwifing

Various forms of consensual non-monogamy, that often incorporate elements of role-play, where a husband allows or encourages his wife to engage intimately with other men. Hotwifing can be linked to cuckolding and other forms of wife-sharing.

In both hotwifing and cuckolding, specific roles are established: In hotwifing, one partner (typically the wife) engages in intimate activities with others, while the other partner (typically the husband) may take on a supportive or submissive role.

In cuckolding, the husband often derives pleasure from watching or knowing about his partner’s intimate encounters with others, which can involve feelings of humiliation or submission. These dynamics can be explored through role-play scenarios.

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Join us as we navigate the exciting world of intimacy role-play and non-monogamous lifestyle together; sharing stories, tips, and insights that enrich our experiences. Users need to register to access our forum!